What is Insecurity? The google definition says its a lack of confidence. Well my interpretation of insecurity is a belief, a belief one has of ones self, or a thing or value, etc... insecurity starts off with beliefs and leads to effects. But when we Believe we are Fat, or not good enough its because that's what you believe not because of lack of confidence. You may not even had any confidence. Anyway many people are commonly insecure about there bodies, and themselves in general. So i wanna start off saying, why? no one can just get up one morning and say i don't like this without a reason why or story as to why you suddenly believe and or feel this way. We all feel and believe based off experiences, and knowledge.
Back to the point ~ I believe insecure people are believers. We are all true believers, we endure these beliefs we believe are the truth. I feel that we are all wired with insecurities that are ready to be turned on. Most importantly, we are insecure due to approval, attention, popularity, society, and point of views. You would not want the things we desire if society and others were not portraying as if its normal, and "you need this."
In this generation, there are many point of views and ideas being put out for us to choose for us to live our lives. You could never be good enough! Some say being skinny is the right way, some say being thick or fat is better but whether you choose one there are always gonna be people who will be waiting to comment and bring you down.
Many are insecure about their sexuality because of others opinions, and their thoughts of being judged and not accepted. I know you question how people have so much pride and confidence in themselves, there looks and who they are? everyone asks those questions before. You may seem like you don't have the answers, i am telling you, you do, just think. I am going to tell you a story, and share my secret to insecure control. Next page...
Back to the point ~ I believe insecure people are believers. We are all true believers, we endure these beliefs we believe are the truth. I feel that we are all wired with insecurities that are ready to be turned on. Most importantly, we are insecure due to approval, attention, popularity, society, and point of views. You would not want the things we desire if society and others were not portraying as if its normal, and "you need this."
In this generation, there are many point of views and ideas being put out for us to choose for us to live our lives. You could never be good enough! Some say being skinny is the right way, some say being thick or fat is better but whether you choose one there are always gonna be people who will be waiting to comment and bring you down.
Many are insecure about their sexuality because of others opinions, and their thoughts of being judged and not accepted. I know you question how people have so much pride and confidence in themselves, there looks and who they are? everyone asks those questions before. You may seem like you don't have the answers, i am telling you, you do, just think. I am going to tell you a story, and share my secret to insecure control. Next page...